When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

We all feel it. The world is shifting, and not always in ways we like.

Politicians are signing laws we never asked for.
Flights are being grounded left and right.
So much feels uncertain, unpredictable, and sometimes out of control.

And maybe, just maybe, you're feeling that shift too but on a more personal level.

Maybe it’s showing up in your love life.
Maybe it’s making you question your relationships.
Maybe it's even affecting your pleasure.

If you've been reading my LOEV Letters, you already know…I’ve been open and vulnerable about my journey with marriage. The ups, the downs, and the lessons that came with it. And how today, I'm in a much better space than I was before.

But one thing I know for sure?

I never did it alone.

I've had my own love and relationship coaches. The ones who helped me navigate the hardest decisions. The ones who showed me how to stand in my power as a woman who always has control over herself, her autonomy, and the choices she makes.

Because when I have issues with him, I go to them. And you should be able to do the same.

This past week, the shift hit me in the deepest way…

I ended up having two of the most intimate conversations this week with 2 close friends; women I hadn’t talked to in a while, but who were also feeling the shift.

One conversation lasted almost five hours, the other over six hours (listen, when women talk, we talk).

But what were we talking about?

After catching them up on my life and them catching me up on theirs, we naturally fell into the same themes:

✔ Men, Relationships, Sex and Money.

One of my friends, who's been married over a decade, shared that she wants more of the kind of sex she desires in her marriage but feels stuck in patterns that aren't fulfilling her. She also struggles with how to maneuver when her husband has financial ideas that trigger her past financial trauma between them. (You know I know) 👀 

Because of the space I’m in today, I was able to help guide her thru it; starting with the money, because let’s be honest, if we don’t get that right, the sex won’t be right either.

Then there was my other friend, who is divorced and ready to remarry. She opened up about what didn’t work in her past relationship and what she’s been experiencing now that she’s dating again.

She shared her frustration. The men she’s meeting. The things she wants but isn't getting.

We dove deep into all of it.

I helped her reconcile some lingering things from her past marriage and by the time we ended the call, she had a clear path forward in dating with real goals in place.

But guess what happened when I hung up… I thought of you.

Because I know you’ve been feeling it too.

You’ve been reading my LOEV Letters, nodding along, questioning things, knowing that you need to make a shift in your dating life, your marriage, your intimacy, your pleasure.

You’ve been wanting to reach out.
You’ve been feeling the urge to have this conversation.
You know it’s time to start changing things.

But you keep hesitating.
You keep ignoring it.

I see you. But now, it's time to answer that tugging on your heart.

So, I have a gift for you.

For the next 48 hours, I’m offering private 1:1 coaching sessions for more than 50% off.

Normally, these sessions are $197, but for the next 48 hours only, you can grab yours for just $97.

👉 Click here to claim your session now.

This isn't just a "talk session."

And don’t worry, unlike my calls with my friends, this won’t take five or six hours. 😆 

In just one session, you will walk away with:
✔ Clarity on what’s holding you back in love, intimacy, and pleasure.
✔ Confidence in what you truly desire and how to communicate it.
✔ An action plan to start shifting things immediately.

But this link disappears in 48 hours. After that, the price goes back up to $197 and this offer will no longer be available.

👉 Click here before time runs out. I’m waiting to connect with you now.

Much Love Always,

Octavia E Vance 💋
Your Favorite Sexologist & Navigator of Love, Leisure, and Pleasure

P.S. Book your session right away. And if you don’t see a date that works for you, don’t worry…just email me, and my team will help you get a day that fits your schedule.

But don’t wait. This is a shift you don’t want to ignore. See you in your session. 😉