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The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

How women of faith were conditioned into celibacy, not as an empowered choice, but as a default expectation, and what happens when that no longer aligns as you get older?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

When you don't want to be celibate while single anymore while navigating desire, devotion and the deep craving for intimacy, without losing yourself or your faith

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.

The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.

Why You’re Not Being Touched Enough and How More Healing Touch Can Transform Your Mind, Body, Soul and Spirit.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness Whether You're a Believer or Not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness and Well Being rather a believer or not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Why "Couple Goals" Is a Trap: The Danger of Putting Relationships on Pedestals.

Why "Couple Goals" Is a Trap: The Danger of Putting Relationships on Pedestals.

Stop idolizing relationships and start creating the love you truly desire on your terms. Here’s why “couple goals” may be keeping you unfulfilled.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #12: "After 12 Years of Marriage, My Husband Secretly Took a Second Wife. How Do I Even Begin to Process This?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #12: "After 12 Years of Marriage, My Husband Secretly Took a Second Wife. How Do I Even Begin to Process This?"

After 12 years of trust, my husband returned with a second wife. Blindsided and heartbroken, I’m torn between faith, marriage, and my own peace. Now what?"

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

No matter your relationship status; married, separated, single, or divorced, you too can create a life of Leisure on your own terms, just as I have.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)

How I Bet on Myself and Won, Rebuilding My Life in the Process and bought my first home without him; proving I didn’t need a man to create the life I desired and deserved.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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