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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

How to have real conversations for women of faith (especially those who are engaged) who are exploring desire, and trying to make sense of modern sexual trends.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
LeisureLeisure
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She’s Still AWOL... Just Quieter, Clearer, and Done Negotiating

She’s Still AWOL... Just Quieter, Clearer, and Done Negotiating

How I had a reckoning in the silence and it told me all I needed to know.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

What Happens When Marriage Becomes a Stage Instead of a Safe Space?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday��’s Q&A with OEV #17: Is It Wrong That My (Sexual) Healing Came Through 'Friends with Benefits' and Not Celibacy as a Single Woman?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #17: Is It Wrong That My (Sexual) Healing Came Through 'Friends with Benefits' and Not Celibacy as a Single Woman?

What happens when your (sexual) healing didn’t come in the “church-approved” package but it still made you whole?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

When You're His Wife, But Not His Fantasy and the Women in His DMs Get the Parts of Him You’ve Been Begging For.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

How women of faith were conditioned into celibacy, not as an empowered choice, but as a default expectation, and what happens when that no longer aligns as you get older?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

When you don't want to be celibate while single anymore while navigating desire, devotion and the deep craving for intimacy, without losing yourself or your faith

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
TouchTouch
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The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.

The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.

Why You’re Not Being Touched Enough and How More Healing Touch Can Transform Your Mind, Body, Soul and Spirit.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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