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From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

No matter your relationship status; married, separated, single, or divorced, you too can create a life of Leisure on your own terms, just as I have.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)

How I Bet on Myself and Won, Rebuilding My Life in the Process and bought my first home without him; proving I didn’t need a man to create the life I desired and deserved.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #11: "He Basically Wasted Six Years of My Life and Never Proposed and Now He’s Marrying Someone Else? How Do I Stop Feeling So Angry"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #11: "He Basically Wasted Six Years of My Life and Never Proposed and Now He’s Marrying Someone Else? How Do I Stop Feeling So Angry"?

He used me for six years, never proposed, and now he’s engaged to someone else just five months after I broke up with him? He treated me badly, but she gets the best of him? Why?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 2)
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 2)

How I Bet on Myself and Won, Rebuilding My Life in the Process bought my first home without him; proving I didn’t need a man to create the life I desired and deserved.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 1)

I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 1)

How I Bet on Myself and Won...Without Depending on a Man, Creating the Freedom, Stability, and Success I Truly Desired.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #10: "Sex Feels Like a Band-Aid for My Husband’s Financially Catastrophic Behavior. How Do I Fix This?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #10: "Sex Feels Like a Band-Aid for My Husband’s Financially Catastrophic Behavior. How Do I Fix This?"

I feel stuck in a cycle of fighting, apologies, and sex. Even after prayer, nothing changes. I still want sex...just not with him. How do I fix this?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
The Rescue Trap: I Took Off My Cape and Stopped Saving Men After 20 Years of Marriage (Pt 5)

The Rescue Trap: I Took Off My Cape and Stopped Saving Men After 20 Years of Marriage (Pt 5)

The Rescue Trap: How Sacrificing Myself for Love Cost Me Everything Until I Walked Away Reclaimed My Joy and Found Myself Again!

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #9: My Husband Has Never Pleased Me Sexually. How Do I Address This After Four Years of Marriage?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #9: My Husband Has Never Pleased Me Sexually. How Do I Address This After Four Years of Marriage?

In the 4 years we've been married, I’ve never climaxed during intercourse. He won’t see a sex therapist and thinks porn is the answer. What should I do?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 4)

The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 4)

How I broke free from being the 'rescuer' after 20 years in my marriage, reclaiming my joy and now empowering you to heal, find balance, and thrive in your relationships.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #8: "The Sexual Tension Is Real! How Do I Stay Celibate While Dating"?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #8: "The Sexual Tension Is Real! How Do I Stay Celibate While Dating"?

The sexual tension is so real, and I'm struggling with my commitment to remain celibate. How do I stay focused while dating without losing myself to a man again?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 3)

The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 3)

How I broke free from being the 'rescuer' after 20 years of marriage, reclaiming my joy and now empowering you to heal, find balance, and thrive in your relationships

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #7"Would You Be OK with Your Husband Dating While Separated and Co-Parenting?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #7"Would You Be OK with Your Husband Dating While Separated and Co-Parenting?"

I’ve worked hard to create peace and balance while co-parenting during separation. Could my estranged husband dating another woman disrupt all that, or is it manageable?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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