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The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 2)

The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency (Pt 2)

How I broke free from being the 'rescuer' after 20 years of marriage, reclaiming my joy and now empowering you to heal, find balance, and thrive in your relationships

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #6 I realize I'm the fixer (rescuer) in my marriage. How Do I Stop Without Feeling Guilty?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #6 I realize I'm the fixer (rescuer) in my marriage. How Do I Stop Without Feeling Guilty?

After years of solving everything, I’m emotionally drained. How can I step back, set boundaries, and find balance without causing tension and damage in my marriage?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency

The Rescue Trap: Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Co-Dependency

How I broke free from being the 'rescuer' after 20 years in my marriage, reclaiming my joy and now empowering you to heal, find balance, and thrive in your relationships.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #5 Why Did You Stay So Long in Your Marriage? 20 Years? Why Wait Until Now to Separate?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #5 Why Did You Stay So Long in Your Marriage? 20 Years? Why Wait Until Now to Separate?

Sharing my reflections on my 20-year marriage, why I stayed thru the challenges, and how my journey of self-growth led me to separate now.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
5 Hot n Spicy Relationship Habits to Bring into 2025 and 5 to Curve...(Singles Edition Part 2)

5 Hot n Spicy Relationship Habits to Bring into 2025 and 5 to Curve...(Singles Edition Part 2)

Spice up your love life in 2025 by embracing habits that ignite passion, align with your faith, and prepare you for real love while curving anything bland like desperation and settling for less than you desire as a single woman of faith.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
3 Life-Changing Things I'm Personally Leaving in 2024 and What I'm Manifesting Instead for an Abundant 2025

3 Life-Changing Things I'm Personally Leaving in 2024 and What I'm Manifesting Instead for an Abundant 2025

From setting boundaries to embracing abundance, here’s what I’m releasing and redefining to make 2025 my most prosperous and aligned year yet, even while separated.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
5 Hot n Spicy Relationship Habits to Take into 2025 and 5 to Ghost... (Married Edition Part 1)

5 Hot n Spicy Relationship Habits to Take into 2025 and 5 to Ghost... (Married Edition Part 1)

Spice up your Love Life by embracing habits that ignite passion, deepen connection, and enhance your Love, Leisure, and Pleasure while leaving behind anything bland...like bad sex and anything less than what you desire.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #4 What does separation mean in my situation when we still live in the same home?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #4 What does separation mean in my situation when we still live in the same home?

Am I supposed to be on a break from my marriage? Is it wrong to think about dating or even actually date while separated?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
The Separation of 2009 vs. The Separation of 2024: My 1st Christmas Being Separated

The Separation of 2009 vs. The Separation of 2024: My 1st Christmas Being Separated

This Christmas marks my first separated from my husband. Here’s how it feels, what I’ve learned, and how you can embrace your own season of change.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #3

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #3

What Can I Do If My Husband and I Have Mismatched Libidos and It’s Creating Distance in Our Relationship? Here’s How to Reconnect

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Leisure That Brings Me Joy Every Year Around This Time

Leisure That Brings Me Joy Every Year Around This Time

Simple, joyful traditions that cost almost nothing and make this season magical. This might bring you joy too.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #2

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #2

When staying feels safe but stifles your growth, could leaving be the step God is calling you to take for peace and purpose?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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